You are worth protecting. It can be very disappointing when others in our lives don’t protect us, or may even be the ones hurting us. We have to remember though, not only are we capable of protecting our own hearts and lives, but we have the responsibility to do so.
You get to make boundaries with others. Others get to make boundaries with you. Boundaries are not an act of aggression or a “mean” thing we do to each other. Boundaries are simply the “rules” we have to make, about how much space we need to feel safe. And they can change! Sometimes, when we are not emotionally healthy, or another person is not emotionally healthy, we have to make stronger boundaries to keep everyone safe. Sometimes, we need more space between ourselves and others, and sometimes others need more space from us.
When we are honest about what we need at different times in our lives, and we allow others to be honest too . . . we can truly connect on a deep level. When we allow behavior that is not okay with us, or we are treating others in ways that are not okay with them . . . we cannot connect at all.
Life really is about connecting. So, boundaries are not only necessary, they are a very very good thing for everyone.
Decide what is and is not okay with you in your relationships . . . knowing it can change, as either you or others are in a more healthy place. Ask others what is and is not okay with them. It will make your life better, your relationships better, and the world better. It’s worth the awkwardness that might happen at first. It’s worth the work and discipline.
You are valuable enough to be protected. Protect yourself, and let others protect themselves too.
You are so very loved.
xoxo
From - www.bravegirlsclub.com
I strongly believe that personal boundaries are very important to my well-being. I have determined some people have behaviors and issues that are toxic to me, and I have decided I must take care of myself. Protect yourself and love yourself, it is worth the peace that it brings you.
