Kindness begins at home...hum, I think that what we are taught as children is important. I don't think that Old Man Crap ever learned this. He thinks that being intentionally mean is funny. He also loves degrading, belittling, bossing, behavior to be alright. Kindness...I don't think that he ever acts in this way.
His behavior to a very old friend is disgusting to observe, and it must be very hurtful to this friend.
This longtime friend does have dementia, odd behaviors, and is mostly weird to know.
I have made kindness a behavior that I want to make important to myself. It is a good trait to encourage and practice.
This longtime friend comes to me when he needs my help, guidance, and support. I think that I understand his inability to do things. I am kind and I behave without dishonoring him. I know that he is doing the best he can. I offer suggestions, and I tell him my thoughts.
Today, this man dropped by due to an issue he has been having. I listened carefully, and had some questions. I had him use our home telephone to make a 1 800 call. He now has some next steps to take for his problem. He left with some help that I could offer him.
Now, Old Man Crap is having a raging attitude about him...and me for assisting with kindness.
I am doing what I know is right. I think that I am able to help...with kindness.
It is difficult for me to live the life I want. The behavior extends to me.
Will I ever smile again?
