How will you respond to the hand (Life) you’ve been dealt? You can either focus on the lack thereof or empower yourself to play the game sensibly and resourcefully, making the very best of every outcome as it arises, even when it’s heartbreaking and hard to accept.
In the end, what matters most is to focus on what matters most. By doing so you get to truly experience the various sources of beauty and opportunity in your life while each of them lasts. Take a moment and revisit the idea of being limited by the reality of not being able to spend all the time you want with someone you love. When someone you love is gone, that’s undoubtedly one of the most heartbreaking situation to cope with
Imagine a person who gave meaning to your life is suddenly no longer in your life, and you’re not the same person without them. You have to change who you are — you’re now alone. You want life to be the way it was before, but it never will be.