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Yellow Pyrex Fridgies

Tuesday, September 8, 2026

 




Vintage Pyrex Yellow Fridgies

I found 3 of these at a thrift store today. The yellow color is not damaged, and they all had the correct clear lids. There were more, but I selected the ones that appear in new condition. These must have been put on the shelves today, or maybe I was the first person to know the age and value for resale. Age? 1947 +. Price? $5 each. I am adding these to my collection.

I sold most of my collection of bowls a few years ago. Though I did keep the frigies, and now have about 25-30 of them.

What is the value?? They seem to be selling in the $50 range....




Reality

Wednesday, September 2, 2026

 



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Sometimes we feel betrayed by others.

Sometimes we feel betrayed by our circumstances.

Sometimes we feel betrayed by life itself.

In any case, we are faced with the reality that things aren’t always what they seem, and we don’t always get what we expect.

So what can we do?

Accept the reality, and then do our best to make the most of it.

The truth is, we were promised trials and tribulations right from the beginning. They were always part of the program. Growing up we were told, “What doesn’t kill us makes us stronger.” And to a certain degree we’ve already realized and accepted it. The relationships, jobs, and projects that didn’t work out led us closer to the ones that did. The things we’ve lost too soon opened our minds to understandings and opportunities we never fathomed beforehand. So while we’ve rarely gotten exactly what we wanted, we have often received more than we bargained for.

Of course, in the heat of the moment, when incredibly disappointing things are happening to YOU, and the outcomes you’re dealing with are REAL, embracing reality and making the best of it is not easy...

You feel betrayed.

You feel victimized.

You feel crushed.


1. The person who betrayed you is likely broken in more ways than you realize.

2. The truth hurts, but it’s much healthier than holding on to the lies you once believed.

3. Arguing with someone who has intentionally hurt you only enflames the pain.

4. It’s always best to wish people well, even if they don’t deserve it.

5. Healing gets easier when you learn to accept an apology you never received.

6. The person who hurt you doesn’t speak for the rest of us.


Fun Idea

Wednesday, August 19, 2026


 

2026 Garlic Harvest

Tuesday, August 11, 2026


 I finished drying my garlic harvest yesterday. A really good year, large garlic, about 40-50 heads. I trimmed them and put them into this wood box for storage.

I am really happy with my harvest, and after I took this photo...I left the box sitting on this chair. I planned to move it this morning.

Meanwhile....mr dementia decided this morning to water the garden with a sprinkler. He watered everything, and got my garlic and onions soaking wet. Then he blamed it on me!! The situation of blaming me is upsetting. Do you think that I should be living like this? 

Sisters Quilt Show #3

Wednesday, August 5, 2026

 

This is another extraordinary quilt that I photographed at the Sisters Quilt Show. The design and work is beautiful. This quilt is very large, so photo is at an angle. I know that I said Wow!

Happy Anniversary

Thursday, July 30, 2026


To Nicole and Bryan,

Happy Wedding Anniversary!!






 

Wisdom in 3 Things

Monday, July 27, 2026

 



Marc Chernoff

Breathe in the future, breathe out the past.

No matter where you are or what you’re going through, always believe that there is a light at the end of the tunnel. Never expect, assume, or demand. Just do your best, control the elements you can control, and then let it be. Because once you have done what you can, if it is meant to be, it will happen, or it will show you the next step that needs to be taken.


Life CAN be simple again.

Just choose to focus on one thing at a time. You don’t have to do it all, and you don’t have to do it all right now. Breathe, be present, and do your best with what’s in front of you. What you put into life, life will often give you back many times over. 


Let others take you as you are, or not at all.

Speak and walk your truth even if your voice and legs shake. By being yourself you put something beautiful into the world that was not there before. So walk your path confidently and don’t expect anyone else to understand your journey, especially if they have not been exactly where you are going.



Sisters Quilt Show #2

Wednesday, July 22, 2026

 


This quilt was displayed at the Sisters Quilt Show. I am impressed with the pattern, and the careful use of color and vision for this quilt. One of my favorite renditions of the American Flag.

2026 Sisters Oregon Quilt Show

Sunday, July 19, 2026

 


Last weekend I attended the Sisters Outdoor Quilt Show. The show is very large, and attracts a huge crowd of women.

This was my first time to see it, and wow, I really enjoyed it. I couldn't see all of the show, it was that large. I did take about 10 photos, I will be sharing.

This quilt was my favorite, absolutely stunning. The design was unusual, and the colors were dramatic and vivid.

Solitude and Camping

Friday, July 17, 2026


I just came home from camping. I needed quiet solitude for my trip. I ended up going to a campground. My decision seemed to be just right. Until...

Small planes flying low over the camp ground from 6 am to 11 am....

Dogs barking, and barking...

People on midnight walks, talking loud,

Teenagers!!! 

Men driving big trucks with bigger boats, in the middle of the night. Please, I could write an essay on Men, Trucks, Boats.

People yelling all the time.

Reservations, are the enemy,  who knows what you will end up with, 50 ft away.

Drunks.

Heavy traffic all the time.


OK,  there's the rant.

Now, I will decide on my spot by choosing a campground with no lake, therefore no loud boats, planes, and no swimming. the best days are Sunday evening to Thursday afternoon. All things considered.

I don't know how to deal with yelling, cursing, drunk, crazy old men. And their generators!!!

As Sen Kennedy says, "You can't fix stupid!"


And something funny to end with. An older couple came to use the campground. They were totally horrified to find no flush toilets. I overheard them...I think they should find a lush resort to meet their needs.

 

Peace

Wednesday, July 15, 2026

 



Where you ultimately end up greatly depends on your daily attitude and response.


It’s all about keeping the right thoughts top of mind so they’re readily available in the moments when we need them most. 

I'm Proud To Be An American

Saturday, July 4, 2026

 


I am a proud American, I am one of the luckiest 2.3% people in the world population. I was born here, into a military family. When I was 12 yrs old, I personally saw President JOHN F KENNEDY. It happened on the Air Force Base where we lived. I was a 6th grade student at a military school on base. We all went to see the President. Unfortunately, this was only a month before his death. I remember the national grief.


 "I pledge allegiance to the flag of the United States of America, and to the republic for which it stands, one nation under God, indivisible, with liberty and justice for all."


I love my country. I believe that Donald Trump is the greatest President in History!



All you people who have Trump Derangement Syndrome are so hateful are a blight on our nation. Stop your disgusting behavior!

Stop following my Blog.

Dementia

Friday, June 26, 2026

 



In dementia, critical, unhappy, or irritable behavior is not a sign of malice or intentional cruelty — it is usually the result of neurological changes that affect the brain’s ability to regulate emotions, impulses, and social cues.

Why This Happens

  • Frontal lobe damage: The frontal lobes act as the brain’s “social filter,” helping people hold back rude comments, read others’ emotions, and weigh consequences. In dementia, especially frontotemporal types, this filter is impaired, leading to disinhibition, impulsivity, and emotional instability.

  • Loss of emotional recognition: People may not detect when others are upset, hurt, or trying to help, because brain regions that interpret facial expressions and tone are damaged.

  • Anosognosia: Some with dementia lose self-awareness of their behavior, so they may not recognize that their criticism or negativity is inappropriate.

  • Mood and personality changes: Dementia can cause irritability, mood swings, apathy, or stubbornness. These are often linked to stress, unmet needs, or underlying medical issues. 

Common Triggers

  • Unmet needs or frustration (e.g., confusion, discomfort, unmet routines)

  • Sensory changes (hearing, vision, smell)

  • Medical conditions (e.g., urinary tract infections, medication side effects) AgingCare

  • Environmental stressors (noise, unfamiliar surroundings)



Coping Strategies for Caregivers

  1. Understand, don’t argue: Reasoning or lecturing often fails because the person may not perceive their behavior as wrong.

  2. Check for medical causes: UTIs, medication side effects, or other health issues can cause sudden behavioral changes.

  3. Set gentle boundaries: Use consistent, calm communication and, if needed, limit contact to reduce emotional strain.

  4. Meet them where they are: Focus on their current emotional state and needs, not on changing their personality.

  5. Self-care: Caregivers must protect their own mental health — seek support, set limits, and take breaks.

Key Takeaway

Critical or unhappy behavior in dementia is a symptom of brain changes, not a reflection of the person’s true character. With empathy, patience, and awareness of possible medical or environmental triggers, caregivers can help reduce distress for both the person with dementia and themselves.

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Me, caregiver, since September 8, 2020. It is really tough to live in this situation.

A Thunderstorm of Toxic Behavior

Tuesday, June 23, 2026

 


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Surviving the ups, downs, and lightning storms of other people’s moodiness can be quite a challenge. It’s important, though, to remember that some moody people may be going through a difficult stage in their lives. They may be ill, chronically worried, or lacking what they need in terms of love and emotional support. Such people need to be listened to, supported, and cared for (although whatever the cause of their moodiness and negativity, you may still need to protect yourself from their behavior at times).

But there’s another type of moody, negative behavior: that of the toxic bully, who will use his or her mood swings to intimidate and manipulate. It's this aspect of moodiness that inflicts enduring abuse and misery. If you observe these people closely, you will often notice that their attitude is overly self-referential. Their relationships are prioritized according to how each one can be used to meet their selfish needs. This is a kind of toxic behavior . 

Move on without them.If you know someone who insists on destructively dictating the emotional atmosphere, then be clear: they are toxic. If you are suffering because of their attitude, and your compassion, patience, advice, and general attentiveness doesn’t seem to help them, and they don’t seem to care one bit, then ask yourself, “Do I need this person in my life?”

When you delete toxic people from your environment it becomes a lot easier to breathe. If the circumstances warrant it, leave these people behind and move on when you must. Seriously, be strong and know when enough is enough! Letting go of toxic people doesn’t mean you hate them, or that you wish them harm — it simply means you care about your own well-being.



Bears and Bees...

Wednesday, June 17, 2026

 


The aftermath of Bear damage. Last week a Black Bear found our Honeybees. There was only one box...and then there wasn't....

We found a little bit of the colony contents, some brood, Queen, and some workers.

We put these remains into a new box. And, after checking, these leftover remains are thriving in only 10 days...

I am hopeful that incident is not going to become a problem.

A Sweet Garden Spot

Monday, June 8, 2026

 


I love this idea. A sweet retreat. I would love to have this...only built at ground level...Sweet Idea!

Remember

Thursday, June 4, 2026


 

Hidden Facts About Solitude

Thursday, May 28, 2026




Solitude, is a state of being alone without being lonely and leads to self-awareness.


Intelligent people tend to have less friends than an ordinary person. The smarter you are, the more selective you become.

Messy people are often highly creative and intelligent because they prioritize Ideas over organization.

They admit that they don't know something instead of pretending to be smart.

Highly intelligent minds crave solitude and never find themselves bored when left alone.



Good Idea

Sunday, May 24, 2026

 


This is my idea of a special

way to care for myself.

Choosing Your Battles

Monday, May 18, 2026

 



Being able to distinguish needs from wants is essential. Never let go of an outcome you truly need in your life, but be reasonably flexible on the outcomes you want but could live fine without. In other words, choose your battles wisely, and don’t let perfect become the enemy of good. Remind yourself that what you pay attention to grows. So focus on what really matters and let go of what does not…