What if we made an agreement in all our relationships that we just ask
for what we need and never guess what each other needs?
It is never OK to threaten, or attempt to guilt someone against their free will.
It is brave and kind to communicate our hopes and expectations clearly,
not in hints or half-way or assuming another person should be
able to read our minds.
We will have so much happiness if we never expect another person
to be responsible for our happiness.
Never threaten others to do something that may make us happy,
and leaves the other person unhappy.
Communicating in detail the result we are hoping for, and really saying what
we are feeling, needing, and wanting is always the best way to go.
Lack of communication just makes everyone just feel unloved.
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We are brave enough to do this.
Kindness and love always win.