Old Man Crap and I had a really big blowup, and showdown last week. I actually knew that this was going to happen sometime soon. However, I did not start it.
Last April (2021) we signed up for season tickets for women's basketball at U of Oregon. There was no way to know what was going to happen for the next season. Covid and all.
I always said that I would not go if I had to wear a mask for indoor events, every indoor event. I hate masks!!
Now the time has come...the requirements are Covid Vaccine Cards, or Covid tests, and official ID or Passports, at the door. I hate it all!
Somehow in the recesses of his vacant brain... he thinks that he will attend these games.
Oh! Boy! I really don't think he can handle the walking. Parking is far away, and his stability to walk is not good. Doctors orders too. He can not drive at all. 1 hour away from our home.
Here is my Truth.
1. I will not attend if I have to wear a mask.
2. I will not drive him to these events. They are at night. I do not drive at night, I know that my driving is impaired, my eyesight is bad at night, there is very heavy traffic from the long haul truckers on the rural, 2 lane highway (who are very frightening, and blinding). We get rain nearly all the time, and this also impairs my driving. Frankly if there was something in the middle of my lane...I would most probably hit it. It is really that I will crash and we will be killed.
He began talking to me with his bullying, belittling me, try to use my truths is his very twisted way, and all ways of demeaning me, and manipulation. I became very angry. There is no way I will do this.
I finally had to get in his face and yell it at him. NO !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! I meant it, NO.
I told him to burn the tickets.
There is much more. See Part 2.
