Last night, I watched the Super Soul Sunday with Oprah and Brene Brown. I was transfixed with the entire interview. Brene is such a wise woman. She has written several books and does seminars online and in person. The wisdom that she shared touched me deeply. She said in order to forgive that something must be broken. The interview discussed this in fact. Now I know why I have forgiven someone close to my heart....I have grieved and let go of my dreams and plans for the future with her. A tragic thing...really...the betrayal was deep, and the relationship will never be the same again.
The difficult thing for me to do is explaining the situation to others. Some people understand...and others are not able to accept.
Here is a link to her website, Brene Brown